Message: I will always remember the time I left PJ a candy rose in his mailbox the night before Valentines day, and by the next morning I had a heart-shaped box of chocolates in my mailbox. PJ was a thoughtful, kind boy and friendly to everyone.

Message: My thoughts and prayers are with your whole family at this awful time. I think back so fondly on the years I babysat PJ in Darien—he was such a kind, smart, joyful little boy and I know he grew up to be a wonderful man. Thank you for letting me share some of PJ's beautiful life. I'll be thinking of you all constantly.