Toby Spector

Toby Kuhlmann Spector

Friday, October 10th, 1958 - Thursday, January 2nd, 2020
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In Loving Memory

Toby Kuhlmann Spector, 61 years of age, passed peacefully on Thursday, January 2nd 2020 at his home in Bridgewater surrounded by family.

Toby was born on October 10, 1958 in Bridgeport, CT to Stella Kuhlmann Spector and Arthur Spector. He is survived by his wife Susan Daigle of Bridgewater, CT, his daughter Erin West Reed of Torrington, CT, his mother Stella Kuhlmann Spector of Southbury, CT, sisters Amy Brettholz of New York, NY, Kathryn Miller of Champaign, IL, Anne Sumple of Doylestown, PA, brothers John Spector of Woodbury, CT, Victor Spector of Doylestown, PA, and Artie Spector of Arlington Heights, IL. He was preceded in death by his father Arthur Spector.

Toby graduated from Newtown High School in Newtown, CT where he excelled in numerous sports and enjoyed acting in the school plays. Throughout his life Toby was an avid golfer and had a love for travel.

Toby will be fondly remembered by his wife, daughter, grandchildren, siblings, nieces, nephews, aunts, uncles, cousins and friends.

Friends may call Friday January 10th, from 5:00pm to 8:00pm at Honan Funeral Home, 58 Main St, Newtown, CT. Funeral services will be held on January 11th at 10:00am at Honan Funeral Home.
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Service Details

  • Visitation

    Friday, January 10th, 2020 | 5:00pm - 8:00pm
    Friday, January 10th, 2020 5:00pm - 8:00pm
    Honan Funeral Home
    58 Main Street
    NEWTOWN, CT 06470
    Get Directions: View Map | Text | Email
  • Service

    Saturday, January 11th, 2020 | 10:00am
    Saturday, January 11th, 2020 10:00am
    Honan Funeral Home
    58 Main Street
    NEWTOWN, CT 06470
    Get Directions: View Map | Text | Email
    Rev. Kay Kuhlmann


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