Janie, I was deeply touched to read Tom's obituary. What a great guy we've lost, but his unfailing love for you was clear. May you find comfort in knowing tht our loving Heavenly Father, Jehovah, has assured us that all those in his memory will be brought back to life, in perfect health in the near future. (Revelation 21:4, Isaiah 26:19). Keep this encouraging thought in your heart, along with your memories and love for Tom.