I can tell from the comments I've read that Nancy was a wonderful person who is deeply missed by her loved ones. My condolences go to the Schoch family. I'm very sorry for your loss. Please take comfort in knowing that our Heavenly Father has made provision to awaken your dear loved one from death. John 5:28,29 says, "Do not be amazed at this, for the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out." This will be a resurrection to an eternal life, on a paradise earth. What this can mean for you is a real hope of being reunited with your dead loved ones under peaceful earthly conditions. (Revelation 21:4) May your pleasant memories of your loved one, and the comfort of this wonderful promise, help you endure this difficult time. My thoughts and prayers are with you.